The mother of two disciples comes to Jesus and asks for the best seats for her sons in His kingdom, and the other ten are immediately indignant. That scene from Matthew (Matthew 20) opens a reflection on greatness in God’s kingdom, measured by how closely we resemble a God who is constantly giving Himself away. The message also names the biggest obstacle to a selfless life: the quiet unbelief that God will look after me once I stop looking only after myself. Listen, and see what that looks like day to day in a church community.
Discussion questions
For your small group or for personal reflection after the sermon.
- The mother of Zebedee's sons asks for her sons to sit at Jesus' right and left in His kingdom. What does this request reveal about how the disciples pictured greatness and power?
- Jesus contrasts the rulers of the nations with how it must be among His followers, saying the Son of Man came to serve and give His life as a ransom for many (Matthew 20:25-28). What in this answer would have surprised the first listeners?
- The speaker claims that at the root of most conflicts is people pursuing their own advantage at the expense of others. Where do you see this in the world and in your own life?
- Humans were meant to reflect God, and the triune God constantly gives and shows love. How does the picture of Dorian Gray from the sermon help you see what selfishness does to that reflection?
- According to the sermon, the biggest obstacle to selfless living is the belief that it won't work and that no one will take care of us. In what situations does this fear most often keep you from serving others?
- The speaker gave examples of serving in the church, such as kids' Sunday school, early morning serving, small groups, or sports projects. What specific step of selfless service can you take this week, trusting that God will take care of you?
