Where are we eating today? A question from a family trip turns out to be one of life’s most serious ones, because in the book of Proverbs two women set a table: Lady Wisdom and Lady Folly (Proverbs 9). The sermon shows that the direction of a life is set not by grand resolutions but by the sum of small daily choices, and that even Solomon eventually moved to the wrong house. Instead of asking whether something is permitted, learn to ask whether it is wise. Listen, and consider whose table you sit at most often.
Discussion questions
For your small group or for personal reflection after the sermon.
- In Proverbs 9 both Wisdom and Folly call out with the same words: "Let all who are simple come in here." How do their houses, their feasts and the results of accepting their invitations differ?
- Folly tempts with "stolen water is sweet", yet her guests do not know that her house is the place of the dead. What modern "stolen treats" promise sweetness but bring bitterness?
- The preacher connects this choice with Moses' words "choose life" and says that whoever chooses wisdom chooses God. What in your life can take God's place, such as work, success or even family?
- Solomon's story shows that even the wisest man moved into the house of folly. How do small daily choices and the people you spend time with shape the direction of your life?
- The sermon says that direction, not intention, determines destination, and that when it comes to wisdom nobody is an exception. In what area is it easiest for you to hide behind good intentions or a "different situation"?
- What decision are you facing this week where, instead of asking "Am I allowed?", you could ask "Is this wise?" in light of your past, your present and your hopes for the future?
