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Who Matters Most – Confronting Those Closest to You

Tomaszów Maz. Rafał Piekarski 31.03.2019 Sermon 5 of 8

In May 1940 Churchill defied the politicians of his own party and declared that Britain would never surrender, and the right decision cost him a confrontation with his closest colleagues. That scene opens a reflection on the hard words of Jesus: that he came to bring not peace but a sword, setting son against father and daughter against mother (Matthew 10). The sermon speaks of the price paid by those whose faith brought silence to the family table, and of how love for Jesus orders every other love rather than cancelling it. Listen if closeness to Christ has distanced you from someone you love.

Discussion questions

For your small group or for personal reflection after the sermon.

  1. Jesus sends the twelve disciples on their first mission and says He did not come to bring peace but a sword (Matthew 10:34-36). How might these words have surprised Jews who expected a Messiah bringing peace and prosperity?
  2. What did the image of a person carrying their cross mean to the first disciples, who had seen crucified rebels along the roads of Galilee?
  3. Jesus does not say we must not love our parents or children, but that we must not love them more than Him. What practically changes in family relationships when Jesus becomes the ultimate point of reference?
  4. The sermon mentioned silence at the dinner table, sarcastic remarks, or accusations of joining a sect after deciding to follow Jesus. What tensions with loved ones do you face because of your faith, and how do you respond to them?
  5. Jesus says that whoever receives His disciples receives Him, and the responsibility for accepting or rejecting you lies with others. How can this truth free you from fear of how your loved ones will react?
  6. In what specific situation this week could you lovingly set a boundary or tell someone close to you, I don't agree with your choice, instead of just keeping the peace?
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Confrontation

Confrontation! Some people fear it, while others love it. However, regardless of how we view confrontation, it is a part of our lives and is sometimes necessary. That is why, in order to learn how to confront others wisely, we turn to Jesus’ teaching, which we find in the Gospel of Matthew. Through it, we can learn not to run away from problems and difficult situations, but to face them in the right way.

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