In a world more connected than ever, is real and lasting closeness still possible? This sermon takes us to the upper room, where hours before the cross Jesus tells his disciples to remain in his love and to love one another (John 15). It turns out that a Christian community is defined not by its building, its music or its programme, but by a love that is a verb rather than a feeling, freely chosen, joyful and directed at the good of the other. Listen if you are looking for a place where relationships are more than a shared hobby.
Discussion questions
For your small group or for personal reflection after the sermon.
- In John 15:9-17 Jesus says, "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you." What does this order, first the Father's love for the Son and then the Son's love for us, say about where our love for others comes from?
- Jesus tells the disciples He no longer calls them servants but friends, and that He chose them. What might this have meant to men who argued, doubted, and one of whom would deny Him?
- The sermon compares God's love to the standard kilogram kept at Sèvres, against which every weight was measured. What personal ideas about love or community do you apply to others instead of this standard?
- The boy carrying coal from the cellar to the fourth floor shows that love is a verb, not a noun. Where in your life do your declarations of love fall out of step with your actions?
- Jesus connects remaining in His love with keeping His commands and with complete joy. How can obedience become a source of joy rather than a burden of duty?
- Who at home, at work, or in the church, including people very different from you, could you give some of your time and attention to this week, especially when no one is watching?
